If the people we meet are our mirrors what is your mirror saying about you?
If the people we meet are our mirrors what is your mirror saying about you? My recent relationship really highlighted to me how my primary love language is words of affirmation. We were rather smitten with each other and both expressive communicators who felt safe enough with each other to share openly from the heart. We gave those words of affirmation to one another. Mirror mirror on the wall. At times I would read our messaging again or while listening to him talk I could see him seeking validation from me, reassurance from me about himself. I knew that his self-esteem had taken a bit of a battering during his marriage, so I wasn’t about to call this behaviour in any loud manner. I just observed. Afterall, there...