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My partner is watching everything I eat

I remember the days very clearly when I was married to someone who looked over my shoulder at everything I did.  There were comments all the time but the worst times were around what I was eating.  It was pretty stressful as I often felt  like I was in a fishbowl. This was also the topic of conversation at work in those days too as being at the office, away from spouses gave us the opportunity to eat what we wanted, when we wanted ,without judgement.  Now that the present world circumstance has so many of us working from home, and now in the line of scrutiny from our partners, there are even more of us feeling like we are in that fishbowl being watched. So...

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I was going to leave b4 lockdown happened

Divorce and Separation happens however we are in a time now where there is even more stress around relationships. Being stuck in a relationship because of the current impacts around the world, make this an even more difficult topic to talk about. There have been spikes in reported domestic violence cases already. My girlfriends sister was about to leave her marriage, when all of this covid restrictions came tumbling down around her. And now she feels she cannot leave. I know that she cannot possibly be the only person on the planet who is in this situation where they were planning to leave, and was waiting for the right time. Now they feel trapped (or choosing to stay with a person depending on your point of view), with...

Personal Peace Procedure – The perfect tool for self-Tapping

One of the best things about Emotional Freedom Techniques, is its wonderful ability to be used as a self-help tool. So many other alternate therapies require another person to deliver them to you. But as we know EFT or Tapping is different in so many ways. It can be used to enhance other therapies such as meditation or the variety of breathing techniques. Or it can successfully be used on its own. The Personal Peace Procedure is a methodology that starts by compiling a list of all your specific bothersome thoughts and memories and systematically use EFT to tap away the emotional impacts of those events. In the coaching space, this is process is referred to as Your Defining Moments. I was recently invited to run a...

My fear of breaking the rules during isolation

While the novelty of been in isolation has well and truly worn off for everybody, or maybe you didn't even find it a novelty. For me, it was great to be able to cancel things out of my diary, great to be able to stay home and not have to be anywhere and be anyone. I was just home, I live alone anyway, hanging out doing my own thing, very little changed for me when it came to locked in anyway. Now we're a few weeks in, the novelty as I'm going to call it has well and truly gone. A lot of the real stresses and the real anxiety and the real things that are worrying people are going to start to raise their heads. The...

When marketing stress you out – Tapping sequence

When I first started this business I would find myself so stressed out with marketing because I came into this business to help people, to do Tapping with people, not to get great at marketing. But after bashing my head against a wall for long enough I realised unless I embraced marketing  my business was going to fail. I realised that marketing was simply about attracting people who wanted what I offered. It didnt have to be yucky. It didnt need to be sleazy either. Come tap with me as we walk past the overwhelm that you're feeling and step into a calmer place, with a much clearer head....